Contrary to popular (or, secular) opinion, the days leading up to Christmas do not need to be stressful! If the hustle, bustle, and stress of the holiday season is starting to get to you, read on for 4 simple ways to slow down and re-center on Christ for the upcoming Christmas season.
1. Observe Advent Slowly, Prayerfully, and Meaningfully
We just celebrated Gaudete Sunday which means Christmas is almost here! Are you looking forward with eager anticipation or dread? Good preparation for Christmas starts with observing Advent.
I found this video very helpful in prioritizing what really matters during Advent and Christmas. Prayer and Liturgy come first! Holy Mother Church has already planned it all out for us. We just have to follow Her lead. Definitely worth a watch from this wise educator and father of 10. Focus on what gives grace.
2. Keep a Nativity at the center of your home
The halls do not need to be decked out (unless it brings you joy!!). We are currently finishing up a renovation of our home, and our space is limited and a little out of order. I cleared away precious space for our Nativity in the main space of our home, and it has really helped us focus on what matters. I find myself (and my family) stopping to ponder the coming of Christ, and feeling true longing for His coming. Keeping decor simple has kept my stress level low, and our joy and anticipation high.
3. Serve Others (Works of Mercy)
Use Advent as a time to practice the corporal and spiritual works of mercy to the best of your ability. Pair any sufferings that you encounter with prayer. Serve the poor. Volunteer at a local Life Center, soup kitchen, or your own parish. Donate money, time, or talents to a worthwhile organization or cause (again, your parish may need your help!) Visit the sick or elderly. Bring a meal to a new mom. Comfort someone going through a difficult situation.
4. Keep Gifts Simple
The consumerism of our culture can truly get out of control. Resist! Keep gifts simple.
Mr. Michael gives a great suggestion in the video above for how he and his wife handle gifts for their large family. We keep gifts simple, affordable, and meaningful in our family. My children and I enjoy using Advent to make handmade gifts for each other, family, and friends. Crafting is our thing, and if it’s not your thing – that’s ok! Determine what your talents are and how you can offer your valuable time to others as a gift.
I love this “Analog Gift Guide” from Mary Ellen Barrett.
How is your Advent going? Do you have any other tips for keeping Christmas simple and Christ-centered?
